My Problem With Her Anger Essay

In the article titled My Problem With Her Anger, by Eric Bartels, he tells us around his life and more importantly, the marriage he holds with his married woman that he loves very much. However, she has a bit of a problem with passive-aggressiveness that causes turmoil in their so far, sooner successful marriage.He starts off at the beginning of the article by describing his day, after a long work day he finishes up the dishes lone(prenominal) to realize that there are two dishes left in the sink to soak that had been sitting there for several days, untouched. As the fact both his wife and his children are already asleep, the job of cleaning the several days untouched dishes falls to him. He noted that in that moment he realized, this was the dark pith of the divide between men and women.He goes on to mention that he knows his wife doesnt have it easy, and in fact, sometimes her life is much harder than his. Shes raising two kids, working, and still participates in family chores a t home. But Bartels does the same. Since they had children, he recalls having to pull up stakes up several things, these including drinking beer and guys night out. This came with the territory, scarce what else came with the territory, he was not expecting. His wife begins to take her anger out on him, letting her frustrations of the children out on her husband. With an accusing your son or your daughter implying she had nada to do with their behavior, Bartels found himself at his wits end.In his eyes, Bartels is up to his eyes in things he cant seem to do right. When he tries to constitute his wife a break from the busy hustle and bustle of her every day by cooking for dinner, bathing the kids, or grocery shopping, it seems he never fails to disappoint. His wife comes home, questioning why he made rice instead of pasta with their meal, why the water from the childrens baths havent been drained, or why he bought that particular thing at the store. Her temper flares and they beg in to argue.This, Bartels knows, is not healthy for a growing child, especially having two at very impressionable ages (two and six), exclusively he knows that without the big fight he and his wife are sure to have about the smallest little thing, her anger will continue to build until a beat down, drag out filled with curses ensues. This being worse for the children to grow up seeing, he knows that things have to change.In My Problem With Her Anger, Bartels isnt placing the bill solely on his wife, in fact, it is very clear he loves her very much and wishes nothing more than to be able to give her the happiness she deserves. He is simple stating that for them to work out in the end there must be help from both sides of the spectrum. Both he and his wife must give it all they have, 150 percent, or give none at all and watch as their marriage crumbles. Clearly, this isnt what he wants, so he is intercommunicate her, in a way, to help him save their marriage from the depths of the troubles that surround it.